This is a repost from Tionna Smalls' blog about being in a relationship with a broken man. After reading this I realize that my last relationship was with a broken man. I thought I could be Wonder Bitch and save the day making him fall in love with me the way I was with him but I was wrong. Thanks, Tionna, for showing me the way.
Dear Diary,
I know I have been gone for a minute but I was writing my first ever
screen play. Yes, you read it right; I am writing and directing a movie
in Brooklyn. Yep!
Anywho, I am back and today I would like to talk about broken men.
Now what is a broken man? Well that’s a good question. A broken man is
man who is emotionally unable to love and/or accept love into his life.
He is a man who should have received a SSI check when he was younger
because he just don’t have it all upstairs. A broken man is a
self-sabotager who make sure he messes things up with any woman who
shows him love especially if he feels himself falling too.
You can’t blame a man for being broken. Most of the times, you have
to blame their sociological factors such as their nature and their
nurture. Many broken men become that way from what they had to go
through in their environment but MOST of them learn their shitty ways
from the people that they were around most which is their mother.
Many women fall in love with broken men hoping that they can save
them and show them a little love but they are truly mistaken. You can’t
undo 25 years of fuckery!!! Nothing can help this man but prayer. A
broken man must know and respect the fact that he is emotionally broken
and that he may need help to overcome what has happened in his past.
Have you ever dealt with a man and no matter what you tried to do, he
never seemed to show you the same love and respect back. Well, you may
have dealt with a broken man. See, these broken men want to love and
want to show love but they just don’t know how. No one has shown them
how to properly care and feel empathy for someone else; all they know
how to do is be messed up and care for themselves. Well at least they
think they care for themselves. A broken man is very miserable and
insecure and does not have a clue on how they can change their lives; so
why are you trying to be Wonder Bitch, thinking you can change his
life?????
No matter how much you may love someone, sometimes shit just doesn’t
work out. Love is not enough; you have to leave a dude to keep a dude.
Staying in a bad situation with a broken man is not going to help the
situation, it is going to hurt the situation…Leave him and let him
realize on his own that he need to get his shit together.
To read the rest of this post check it out on The Diary of Tionna Smalls
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